Are There Sites For Straight Guys Who Like Bellies?

Hi Professor,

I'm a guy who has had an interest in bellies for as long as I can remember. However, I know I'm straight as I'm not sexually or mentally attracted to men (except their bellies). I've joined Grommr several times in order to look at guys with bellies but I find that conversations on there turn sexual quite quickly and I'd like somewhere to chat to other straight guys who are interested in guys' bellies, and guys' bellies only! Is there anywhere online you can request?

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Just to let you know, there are a number of guys who have felt overwhelmed by what they felt was an “over-sexualization” on Grommr. There are a couple of places I’d recommend.  One is a primarily “straight” site that has an emphasis on those who admire larger women.  But there are also lots of straight men on board who want to be “mutual gainers” (where both partners gain) or want a female partner who wants a guy who is only going to get bigger. The site also is “gay-friendly” but is definitely not anything like Grommr, although it’s not at all uncommon for men to leave positive comments. In many cases, these aren’t gay or bisexual men, but are giving compliments in the same way someone on your sports team would yell out “great job” when you hit a homerun or made a touchdown, although in this case it’s because you’ve just outgrown your jeans.

Another very “safe” place is one of the oldest and most established ones—www.bellybuilders.com, which can be thought of more as a “community.” You’ll get lots of support, questions answered, and “way to go, dude” comments, without the “wanna cam and jerk off” element.  Although you’re not gay, I should probably also mention to readers of this blog there is a new google plus site--https://plus.google.com/u/0/communities/114874889573950966087?cfem=1#communities/114874889573950966087  “Gay Gainer Guys Guild” that is brand-new, and was established as a “non-horn dog” site to differentiate itself from Grommr, so you don’t get the major sexual vibe you can on the other site.  For that reason, I suspect they’d be a welcoming group to straight gainers who aren’t interested in having sex with guys.